I’m a Filipina married to an Indian man.

 




Do you regret your marriage, and why?

I’m a Filipina married to an Indian man.

We’ve been married for almost two years now.

Before our marriage, we were in a long-distance relationship for six years. During that time, we did everything we could to make it work — sometimes I visited him in India, sometimes he came to the Philippines, and other times we met in another country.

Since last year, we’ve been living with my in-laws.

My husband is a wonderful person. We’re not rich, but we live comfortably and are content with what we have.

My in-laws are also kind and loving. I truly care for them. The only challenge is that they are strict vegetarians, and I’ve eaten meat my whole life. I’m not allowed to eat meat in their house, so it’s been hard to adjust.

There are days when I really miss Filipino food, my friends, and especially my family — including my dogs. They’re getting older, and it hurts to think I might not be with them for much longer.

Do I regret marrying my husband? Not at all. I love him deeply and I’m thankful for the life we’re building together. But I do miss my family and my dogs in the Philippines. It’s a mix of happiness and homesickness — I’m happy where I am, but I still long for where I came from.

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